Friday, January 10, 2014

Here are 20 things people over 20 should stop doing. And believe me, I’ve been guilty of most of them.

1. Playing video games instead of looking for a job.
- Sure, they’re fun. But those games can sure take up a lot of valuable time spent on more important areas of life.

2. Spending money you don’t have.
- Credit cards may seem like an easy way to pay for things, but in the long run they could really hurt you if not properly used. Stick to cash, debit, or checks. This may seem old-school, but they will definitely help you manage your money.

3. Using the term “YOLO.”
- Simple. Please stop using it.

4. Only going to church to find a relationship.
- Not only will you hurt yourself in the long rung, but you will also be selfishly taking time away from a man or woman who is seeking after God’s wisdom and guidance.

5. Citing “-Google” on a college paper or work presentation.
- It’s not a valid citation, and it could get you into trouble.

6. Thinking you know it all.
- Nobody want’s to spend time around a know-it-all. Walk in a posture of learning, and embrace every opportunity to gain new knowledge and wisdom.

7. Dating with no vision.
- You’re confusing your heart and hurting the hearts of others.

8. Demanding respect before you’ve earned it.
- Don’t get prideful. Learn to scrub the floors before you ask to manage the building.

9. Waiting until you’re done with school before you start paying off your loans.
- Waiting to pay off your loans until school is over might sound great, but in the long run you’re going to wish you had started sooner than later.

10. Getting into arguments over social-media.
- No body wants to see your drama on their news feed. Keep it to yourself and the people involved. Handle each situation in a mature and honorable manner.

11. Blaming others for your own mistakes
 - Drop your pride. Accept your failures. Learn from your mistakes. You will learn a lot from the process.

12. Relying on your mother and father to always bail you out of trouble.
- Learn to take care of yourself instead of always relying on your mother and father. They aren’t always going to be around to help you.

13. Calling off work for no reason.
 - You aren’t doing anyone a favor by calling off. Learn to be responsible, and value that job someone else in the world wishes they had.

14. Ignoring wisdom from people who are older than you.
- You don’t know everything. Take time to learn from people who having been living longer than you.

15. Thinking minimum wage is worse than no job at all.
- Don’t believe the lie that money is everything. Any job is a good start. Give your full attention to any job, no matter the pay.

16. Pretending like you didn’t know any better.
- Purposeful ignorance will only get you so far. Own up to your mistakes and take each failure as an opportunity to learn.

17. Using the excuse, “I’m too young.”
- You’re never too young. There is always room for you to succeed when hope is on your side. Have faith in yourself and the gifts God has given you.

18. Living in the moment, instead of planning for the future.
- Be diligent and plan for the future. Give yourself some goals, dreams, and future aspirations. Give yourself something to wake up for in the morning.

19. Giving up before you start. Stop making excuses.
- Excuses won’t get you anywhere. Better to try and fail then to regret never trying. At least you will learn something.

20. Being Passive
- If you don’t stand for something, you’ll eventually fall for anything.
No one is perfect, and these points are all things I myself have once struggled with or been witness of.

- Jarrid Wilson

Monday, April 8, 2013



Saturday, December 15, 2012

Colossians 3:5-17 New International Version (NIV)

5 Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is 6 Because of these, the wrath of God is coming. 7 You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived. 8 But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. 9 Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices 10 and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator. 11 Here there is no Gentile or Jew, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave or free, but Christ is all, and is in all. 12 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. 15 Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. 16 Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. 17 And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

Saturday, June 23, 2012

In a way, you fixed me. But somehow, you also broke me.

Imagine, meeting someone, who you never knew would mean so much to you. Talking to them every day, looking forward to the texts that they would send you. A good morning text, a goodnight text. Every single time that you’re feeling down, they’re the first person who can cheer you up. Instantly. The one person who can make you truly smile, without even trying. The one that you look forward to seeing every day, talking to every morning, till night. The one that truly makes you happy. The trust you have for them is so strong. Then your feelings start to kick in. You start to fall for them, you fall for them hard. Even though you know that you shouldn’t, because it wouldn’t end well. You confess, that you have feelings for them. They end up feeling the same way. As time passes by, you end up together. You tell them that you love them, they say they love you back. You start to hang out with them heaps. You fall for them more and more each day. Nothing could be more perfect. The one that you’ve always wanted, is yours. But then, one day it all disappears, everything starts to fall apart. They no longer love you, they no longer have feelings for you. You now mean nothing to them. Everything you ever shared, gone. Everything that they ever said to you, was a lie. It hurts. Doesn’t it?

Monday, March 5, 2012


chatbox is back to mah bloggie :P tehe!
3rd day of exam, i think i screwed it all up again, eheheh.
i feel so lazy to study :/
im still in chilling-milling statement man, my brain cant absorb anything now
OH WELLS, will work harder on midterm then, thats what i always do. :P
hahaha, hopefully i can make it :P


im hungry already, heh. 
til then ! :D 


If we never make it back
To what we used to be
I hope you know I tried to give you all of me

I dont wanna wake up tomorrow
If our memories filled with sorrow
I`d rather smile when I remember you

If you find someone
That can love you right
I wont stand in your way
I wont even fight,
No, I wont forget
Ill always remember you

Found a new one to give you heart to
The way I acted I dont blame you
But youre always on my mind
Think about you all the time
And Im wishing you were mine
Reminiscing all the time, when I had your love
You`ll always have my Heart
You`re everything I wanted
Exactly what I needed

I see your heart has now moved on
Got me sitting here i`m singing sad songs
I`m a love forever
Baby I forget you never
January to december always remember you

Like the sun will rise
As the seasons change
I will walk trought life
Til the very end,
No, I wont regret
Ill always remember you

Thursday, March 1, 2012



原來---- 忘記一個人會是這麼的……難

Monday, February 27, 2012

Write upon my heart.

To remind me who you are.

All I know is that you're so nice
You're the nicest thing I've seen
I wish that we could give it a go
See if we could be something

I wish I was your favorite girl
I wish you thought I was the reason you are in the world
I wish my smile was your favorite kind of smile
I wish the way that I dress was your favorite kind of style
I wish you couldn't figure me out
But you'd always wanna know what I was about

I wish you'd hold my hand when I was upset
I wish you'd never forget the look on my face when we first met
I wish you had a favorite beauty spot that you loved secretly
'Cause it was on a hidden bit that nobody else could see

Basically, I wish that you loved me
I wish that you needed me
I wish that you knew when I said two sugars, actually I meant three
I wish that without me your heart would break
I wish that without me you'd be spending the rest of your nights awake
I wish that without me you couldn't eat
I wish I was the last thing on your mind before you went to sleep

All I know is that you're the nicest thing I've ever seen
And I wish we could see if we could be something

Sunday, February 5, 2012


had so much fun in camp :P
wasnt really that tiring though, was really relaxing
jakunning with the juniors are the best things that could happen in high school life =p
husband was really caring throughout the whole camp tho, FAKE husband hahaha
til then !

Friday, February 3, 2012

MSSD 2012

Sigh, last year of mssd d, lost in quarters. :(
damn no luck weih sigh
we got DJ and Catholic LOL
good game la anyway, it was a really good game
no regrets !
we did our very best against catholic
it was FUN though
we were having lots of fun in the game :P
150% of jakunness. XD

skipped school today heh , leadership camp at night ! :D
will be back on sunday, till then ~