Here are 20 things people over 20 should stop doing. And believe me, I’ve been guilty of most of them.

1. Playing video games instead of looking for a job.
- Sure, they’re fun. But those games can sure take up a lot of valuable time spent on more important areas of life.

2. Spending money you don’t have.
- Credit cards may seem like an easy way to pay for things, but in the long run they could really hurt you if not properly used. Stick to cash, debit, or checks. This may seem old-school, but they will definitely help you manage your money.

3. Using the term “YOLO.”
- Simple. Please stop using it.

4. Only going to church to find a relationship.
- Not only will you hurt yourself in the long rung, but you will also be selfishly taking time away from a man or woman who is seeking after God’s wisdom and guidance.

5. Citing “-Google” on a college paper or work presentation.
- It’s not a valid citation, and it could get you into trouble.

6. Thinking you know it all.
- Nobody want’s to spend time around a know-it-all. Walk in a posture of learning, and embrace every opportunity to gain new knowledge and wisdom.

7. Dating with no vision.
- You’re confusing your heart and hurting the hearts of others.

8. Demanding respect before you’ve earned it.
- Don’t get prideful. Learn to scrub the floors before you ask to manage the building.

9. Waiting until you’re done with school before you start paying off your loans.
- Waiting to pay off your loans until school is over might sound great, but in the long run you’re going to wish you had started sooner than later.

10. Getting into arguments over social-media.
- No body wants to see your drama on their news feed. Keep it to yourself and the people involved. Handle each situation in a mature and honorable manner.

11. Blaming others for your own mistakes
 - Drop your pride. Accept your failures. Learn from your mistakes. You will learn a lot from the process.

12. Relying on your mother and father to always bail you out of trouble.
- Learn to take care of yourself instead of always relying on your mother and father. They aren’t always going to be around to help you.

13. Calling off work for no reason.
 - You aren’t doing anyone a favor by calling off. Learn to be responsible, and value that job someone else in the world wishes they had.

14. Ignoring wisdom from people who are older than you.
- You don’t know everything. Take time to learn from people who having been living longer than you.

15. Thinking minimum wage is worse than no job at all.
- Don’t believe the lie that money is everything. Any job is a good start. Give your full attention to any job, no matter the pay.

16. Pretending like you didn’t know any better.
- Purposeful ignorance will only get you so far. Own up to your mistakes and take each failure as an opportunity to learn.

17. Using the excuse, “I’m too young.”
- You’re never too young. There is always room for you to succeed when hope is on your side. Have faith in yourself and the gifts God has given you.

18. Living in the moment, instead of planning for the future.
- Be diligent and plan for the future. Give yourself some goals, dreams, and future aspirations. Give yourself something to wake up for in the morning.

19. Giving up before you start. Stop making excuses.
- Excuses won’t get you anywhere. Better to try and fail then to regret never trying. At least you will learn something.

20. Being Passive
- If you don’t stand for something, you’ll eventually fall for anything.
No one is perfect, and these points are all things I myself have once struggled with or been witness of.

- Jarrid Wilson

你不在

妈咪，如果你还在，我会不会比现在懂事
如果你还在，我会不会不会好像现在的我
如果你还在，我会不会比较会做人，比较会想
咪，如果你还在，我会不会比现在好过
如果你还在，我会不会有个依靠，有个人可以告诉我
什么该做，什么不该做
如果你还在，我有了你的爱和关怀
我会不会不会好像现在这么野，这么坏
妈妈，有太多如果你还在了
可是，你不在
而我，还是要过着你不在的日子，活着你不在的人生
也永远找不到如果你不在的答案

Colossians 3:5-17 New International Version (NIV)

5 Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is 6 Because of these, the wrath of God is coming. 7 You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived. 8 But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. 9 Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices 10 and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator. 11 Here there is no Gentile or Jew, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave or free, but Christ is all, and is in all. 12 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. 15 Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. 16 Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. 17 And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

In a way, you fixed me. But somehow, you also broke me.

Imagine, meeting someone, who you never knew would mean so much to you. Talking to them every day, looking forward to the texts that they would send you. A good morning text, a goodnight text. Every single time that you’re feeling down, they’re the first person who can cheer you up. Instantly. The one person who can make you truly smile, without even trying. The one that you look forward to seeing every day, talking to every morning, till night. The one that truly makes you happy. The trust you have for them is so strong. Then your feelings start to kick in. You start to fall for them, you fall for them hard. Even though you know that you shouldn’t, because it wouldn’t end well. You confess, that you have feelings for them. They end up feeling the same way. As time passes by, you end up together. You tell them that you love them, they say they love you back. You start to hang out with them heaps. You fall for them more and more each day. Nothing could be more perfect. The one that you’ve always wanted, is yours. But then, one day it all disappears, everything starts to fall apart. They no longer love you, they no longer have feelings for you. You now mean nothing to them. Everything you ever shared, gone. Everything that they ever said to you, was a lie. It hurts. Doesn’t it?

yayy

chatbox is back to mah bloggie :P tehe!
3rd day of exam, i think i screwed it all up again, eheheh.
i feel so lazy to study :/
im still in chilling-milling statement man, my brain cant absorb anything now
OH WELLS, will work harder on midterm then, thats what i always do. :P
hahaha, hopefully i can make it :P

x

im hungry already, heh. 

til then ! :D 

If

If we never make it back
To what we used to be
I hope you know I tried to give you all of me

I dont wanna wake up tomorrow
If our memories filled with sorrow
I`d rather smile when I remember you

If you find someone
That can love you right
I wont stand in your way
I wont even fight,
No, I wont forget
Ill always remember you


Found a new one to give you heart to
The way I acted I dont blame you
But youre always on my mind
Think about you all the time
And Im wishing you were mine
Reminiscing all the time, when I had your love
You`ll always have my Heart
You`re everything I wanted
Exactly what I needed

I see your heart has now moved on
Got me sitting here i`m singing sad songs
I`m a love forever
Baby I forget you never
January to december always remember you


Like the sun will rise
As the seasons change
I will walk trought life
Til the very end,
No, I wont regret
Ill always remember you

我以為，拋開一切，沒看到就可以…
我以為，離開你就可以不在傷悲…
我以為，你不在身邊…傷痛就會跟著不存在
可怕的是…你居然會將我的心霸佔著…
離開你以後~~慢慢的我才發現

原來最傷的痛…不是你在我身邊時的冷淡
而是….
離開你以後
你卻………一直住在我的心裡...

原來---- 忘記一個人會是這麼的……難

Write upon my heart.

To remind me who you are.

All I know is that you're so nice
You're the nicest thing I've seen
I wish that we could give it a go
See if we could be something

I wish I was your favorite girl
I wish you thought I was the reason you are in the world
I wish my smile was your favorite kind of smile
I wish the way that I dress was your favorite kind of style
I wish you couldn't figure me out
But you'd always wanna know what I was about

I wish you'd hold my hand when I was upset
I wish you'd never forget the look on my face when we first met
I wish you had a favorite beauty spot that you loved secretly
'Cause it was on a hidden bit that nobody else could see

Basically, I wish that you loved me
I wish that you needed me
I wish that you knew when I said two sugars, actually I meant three
I wish that without me your heart would break
I wish that without me you'd be spending the rest of your nights awake
I wish that without me you couldn't eat
I wish I was the last thing on your mind before you went to sleep

All I know is that you're the nicest thing I've ever seen
And I wish we could see if we could be something

CAMP

had so much fun in camp :P
wasnt really that tiring though, was really relaxing
jakunning with the juniors are the best things that could happen in high school life =p
husband was really caring throughout the whole camp tho, FAKE husband hahaha
til then !

MSSD 2012

Sigh, last year of mssd d, lost in quarters. :(
damn no luck weih sigh
we got DJ and Catholic LOL
good game la anyway, it was a really good game
no regrets !
we did our very best against catholic
it was FUN though
we were having lots of fun in the game :P
150% of jakunness. XD

skipped school today heh , leadership camp at night ! :D
will be back on sunday, till then ~

別難過
既然緣盡了就讓它過去吧，伸開你的雙臂擁抱微風感受春夏秋冬
振作精神迎接新的每一天，人生路上你只是跟她無緣，會有與你有緣的人與你一同走過人生路。相信吧。休息一段時間.充分的利用這一段時間做一些你想做的事.認為是對的就去做.要不就和知心的朋友說說話，心裡自然就會好受一些。平時要經常給自己解壓，有煩心事的時候不要鑽­牛角尖，往好處想。慢慢的心裡的疙瘩就化開了。

怎樣從失戀中走出來？
笑對人生，還要培養樂觀豁達的健康心理。振奮精神，把眼光投向未來，不要死死盯住眼前的愛情挫折上

記住這句話吧這也會過去痛苦或者歡樂都是人間留不住的東西
也都是值得珍惜的既然已經無法挽回就只好坦然接受了
其實失去一樣東西的同時上帝會補償給你另一樣東西的
只要你自己不迷失自己精彩總會再來
現在的痛苦很多人都經歷過也能理解去大吃一頓或者睡上一天和朋友們玩一玩

這也會過去！

Life goes on and never turn back

比想象中更痛 你真的没回头
我命令眼泪不许失控
回忆不跟你走 都挤在我心中
我就有责任让它值得被珍重

谢谢你曾让我难过
谢谢我没有想太多
当爱情左盼右顾的时候

我眼泪都笑了 谁还想哭呢
再勇敢的站着 找回光和热
面对你的时候 我不会舍不得
因为你已是过客 因为路有些曲折
是美的

你眼泪都笑了 谁还会哭呢
来不及完美的 就唱首骊歌
想起你的时候 我不是卑微的
反而我没有遗憾 因为我已爱过你
深深的
心碎成了沙漠 就快开凿绿洲
我没有时间不知所措
你温柔的双手 本就不属于我
又何必在乎它以后属于谁呢

梦

我 看不开 也放不开
因为我曾见过 爱情真的盛开
我 要等待 一直等待
等那一个夜晚 从回忆回来

当你拥抱着我 那一瞬间 我象飞到空中
而当我缓缓降落 我不再是我
我有了梦 我在梦中
爱来过 来得那么美 那么凶
欢呼着 从我生命 狠狠碾过
连遗憾 也都不争气的 珍惜成笑容

爱来过 让我完整过 幸福过
怎么能轻易就放他走
我不想解脱 我只怕错过
我就是要等你回来 爱我

寂寞喧哗 我不害怕
因为我只听得见对你的牵挂
世界很大 会容得下
我这小小傻傻顽固的信仰
你有没有过承诺 我已忘了 那已不重要了
反正我都会守候 在梦中守候
我最唯一 最美的梦

我就是要等你回来
如果需要动用奇迹来交换美丽
就让泪蒸发 下成雪花
和我一起在爱中被融化

when i love, i love forever.
i want it to be forever.

Just once...
i want my heart to lead me somewhere where there is a chance of happy endings

I'll always love you.

its been raining ever since you.. 

i often close my eyes
and i can see u smile
you reach out for my hand
and im woken from my dream
although ur heart is mine
its hollow inside
i never had ur love
and i never will

and every night
i lie awake
thinking maybe you'd love me
like i've always loved you
but how can u love me
like i loved u when
you cant even look me straight in my eyes

i've never felt this way
to be so in love
to have someone there
yet feel so alone
arent you supposed to be
the one to wipe my tears
the one to say that
you would never leave

the water calm and still
my reflection is there
i see u holding me
but then u disappear
all that is left of you
is a memory
on that only
exists in my dream

i dont know what hurts you
but i can feel it too
and it just hurts so much
to know that i cant do a thing
and deep down in my heart
somehow i just know
that no matter what
i'll always love you.

when i drift to sleep
i see u next to me
you try to hold me tight
i realized its all a dream
i thought ur heart was going to be all mine
i feel empty without you

every moment, i lie and dream
hoping u want me at least as much as i do you
cant explain this feeling that i hold inside
but i hope someday you will chg ur mind

i didnt want it to go
it was so close to love
to have u right there
then feel so alone

you were supposed to be my everything
the one to keep me same
im crazy to think that
i look back at the last time i saw u
i see u holding me
then slowly fade away

all that is left of you is a memory
of that day i once felt glad

i dont know what went wrong
but im sure neither do you
tried hard to keep it from going bad like it did
maybe one day you will see how much you need me

just like i need you, yes baby i do

I hate the fact that I can never hate you

6.43pm, finally home.
outing with ky and nat was fun
neway session :P
its been quite a while since i updated about whats happening
on my daily life though

im so tired.

if you are ready to come in my dream then im ready to sleep forever

Never should've let you go
Never found myself at home
Ever since that day that you walked
Right out the door

You were like my beating heart
That I, I can't control
Even though we've grown apart
My brain cant seem to let you go

Thinking back to the old times
When you kept me up late at night
We use to mess around
Laugh and play, fuss and fight

Since youve moved on
You took a piece of me give it back
So much pain in my chest
Blacking out, heart attack

Promise me, you wont let anyone hurt you
Remember, I will always be here for you
Even if it kills me to see you

Someone like you.

I heard that you're settled down
That you found a girl and you're married now.
I heard that your dreams came true.
Guess she gave you things I didn't give to you.

Old friend, why are you so shy?
Ain't like you to hold back or hide from the light.

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it.
I had hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded
That for me it isn't over.

Never mind, I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
Don't forget me, I beg
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead,
Yeah.

You know how the time flies
Only yesterday was the time of our lives
We were born and raised
In a summer haze
Bound by the surprise of our glory days

Nothing compares
No worries or cares
Regrets and mistakes
They are memories made.
Who would have known how bittersweet this would taste?

I hope someday we'll be strong enough to fight for what we feel.

我有記憶以來 我就期望 能擁有愛 觸摸到愛

也知道我的雙手 空無一物 就因為愛總進不來

我從沒得到愛 就先闖開 勇敢去愛  突破難關

我雖然也受傷了 再站起來 別讓自己感受傷害

或許是種折騰 但我相信著

只要還活著 愛就存在著

有人說我太傻了 太愚蠢 因為我不會怕有傷痕

總是允許別人 用自我保護做基本

直到那個人 傷我到完整 就放棄維護自己的責任

Reasons

總是不敢要太多 總是覺得自己還不夠
可是為什麼 看見你對她的問候會心痛

最想說就別管我 我沒事的只是太衝動
轉了身的我 一步一步告訴自己 要往前走

勇敢說出我想要的理由 勇敢享受愛情中的溫柔
我在害怕些什麼
勇敢說出我愛你的理由 勇敢接受愛情中的脆弱
能不能夠說出口 讓我勇敢溫柔

我不想閃躲 或裝做不在乎放棄自我
我想那並不是我